I am writing this letter to tell you that I don’t want to marry. I never complained about anything. But this time I am doing it ? How can you give my hand to that person who is demanding dowry ?
Papa, you always taught me that stand for the right thing, then how can I marry him ? He don’t want your daughter. He is such a greedy man. Even his family is also in this, how can you take a big decision . You always give us moral values. Is I am a burden on you? Please tell me, I am a independent girl, they want me to left my job. You want me to become independent and when I am, you want me to do what these greedy people want ? DOWRY.. Is a illegal thing.. But why are you not taking any stand against them. In fact you are accepting their all demands.
Mummy, you want me to learn every household work and I do it. But now what’s the use of this work ? If someone it treating your girl as a servant. They can never treat me like a woman and will never respect. There is no use of going in that house. Do you want that your daughter is treated like any dog ? You want me to make you feel proud. But how can you feel proud by sending me to a greedy family.
its just starting of their demands. And to fulfill this papa had already taken a loan. How can you complete later ? Its upto you, whom you care society or your daughter. This society has not grown me and fulfil my demands. Its my parents, so your decision is important for me not society gossips.
Why a girl is treated like animal ? Is they are purchasing something ? I am also a human being. You are giving your daughter and along with this they want dowry.
If we stop this, then only others will do it. If we want change, then we should be the change. A perfect couple is where understanding is good, respect is each other feelings and decision. But when the whole thing is based on dowry then there is no use. Its like you are doing a deal between money and burden( your daughter).
Because of dowry, girls become a burden on parents. Girls take away money and boys bring. But this rule is made by us only. Now, its our turn to stop this.
Please, don’t take such decision which can destroy your daughter’s life.
Dowry is a virus which is eating our society day by day. we can stop it but we are appreciating it. It doesn’t make girls life better but you are pushing them into hell. Say no to dowry and slap each individual who is demanding this. She is your daughter first not an animal. Learn to respect girl and their feelings. She is also a human.